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Why do you look fondly at someone who mistreated you

Who initiated the divorce? Why you divorced? How long were you together?

Were you actually married?

The only woman I've ever been with told me to kill myself.

>>16545 What for?

>>16539 Emotional dependency is a thing. I didn't believe it, but it's real. >>16541 >Who initiated the divorce? I was the one that brought up the topic. By the time, she was so apathetic with our relationship so I decided to ask her what was wrong and if she felt unhappy with our marriage, what she answered yes. >Why you divorced? She said I forgot her, I didn't look her for sex anymore, we didn't go out anymore. That's partially true, we didn't have sex in a long time and I was too busy trying to get a better job to provide us a better life, but a lot of other things she said weren't true. After all, I think she just fell in love with another man and decided to kick me out of her life. >How long were you together? Almost 5 years. >>16543 Yep. I asked her parents permission to marry her and we went through the whole legal process. I loved her.

>>16546 Something about her parents boat after I said that I didn't care about some small boat and would only have cared if it was something like a yacht. Then she implied that I should find myself inside of a coffin. Sad times.

>>16547 Did she take any money from you in the divorce? I was once together 3 years and half with a beautiful woman, tall and blonde. Mid relationship I stopped using antidepressants and when I did that, I would cum fast every time we had sex. With time this started to make me feel ashamed and insufficient and we stopped having sex. How attractive is your ex wife?

>>16549 >Did she take any money from you in the divorce? Kinda. We talked a lot about it and decided to not take anything from the other, but I paid a 24k loan she had before we broke up as a way to thank her for all the support she gave me that helped me get the job I always dreamt about. I don't regret it, money come and go and with this new job I can pay it in a couple of years. >How attractive is your ex wife? She was a pretty woman, very attractive but not for BR standards. Women feel rejected when you deny them sex. They think there's something wrong with them and go look for someone who only wants to fuck'em and leave. If I knew sex was that important to her, I'd have done it with more frequency.

>>16538 >Much light and much shadow Yeah, that was my last relationship, too. About four and a half years.

>>16550 >If I knew sex was that important to her, I'd have done it with more frequency. The one mistake I don't think I will ever make. I want a lot of sex, and it's only fair that I give it to her whenever *she* wants it. I have had some surprisingly unsatisfying (as sex goes - still good) sex because I did it right when she wanted it in one of the few moments that my mind was neither close to it nor could get there in a few minutes. Like fuck me, she was lying on the bed with her legs already spread and I thought "it would be nicer if I got to remove her panties so I could build some anticipation". Not how my coombrain usually acts.

>>16547 >we didn't have sex in a long time well, that's a major sign if you don't want to bang your gf anymore, why even stay together?